20 People Share The Most Hurtful Thing A Member Of The Opposite Sex Has Said To Them

Wow, some people can be pretty hurtful...

A Good Dad Who’s Lost His Son

“I believed her.” Said by my sister. My wife and I had just separated a year prior, and I was on my first trip down to see my son, and my sister insisted on coming along. I didn’t realize why she was so adamant about coming along until that first day, after I played with him, fed him, changed him and put him to bed. She sat in the doorway of the room while I read him to sleep. On the way back to our hotel in the neighboring town, she pulled over because she was bawling uncontrollably. She confessed to me that my ex-wife had called her, and the two of them had been talking behind my back about why the ex walked out. She said that my ex told her a lot of horrifying stories about how I’d burned my son, beaten my son, etc. It wasn’t until she saw me with him and touching his hair while he slept, that she realized it was all made up. She was bawling because she was ashamed of herself for believing all the stories. I sat there in the car, incredulous. Even now, a decade later, I can’t forgive her. She has three kids I adore and when I go over I spend all my time with the children playing, because I can’t sit at a table with her and her husband without thinking about it. I’m the goofy kind of uncle that’s always festooned with kids because I love make believe and I’m willing to do anything. A couple of months ago, I was sitting with her daughter, just sounding out words for her to mimic (she’s 2, now), and her daughter reached out to touch my lips and we had this beautiful little moment, staring into each other’s eyes. I started to cry and my sister asked me what was wrong, so I told her that there was a little boy on the other side of the country that didn’t get that moment because it was stolen from both of us. I had to leave. I couldn’t even look at her. (Source)

This Is the Opposite of a Sext

My first boyfriend, whom I had dated for two years before finally having the courage to break up with, texted me last night. Please bear in mind we’ve been apart for a year now. “I’ve been thinking about you recently, and it’s hit me that you haven’t been in an official relationship since we broke up and I wondered why. Then I remembered that every minute I spent with you made me want to kill myself more.” Cue extreme hurt. (Source)

How to Teach Your Kids to Be Horrible People

Im leaving you and taking the kids because they need a father thats not dying.” (Source)

Standing at the Bar Looking Stupid

There was a girl that stood me up just for the fun of it. To wrap a guy around their pretty little finger, and just toy with him. It’s not nice at all, and not all women enjoy the little power trip. Even less f_ck with a guy to attain it. But it happens, and it sucks. (Source)

And You Have the Manners of a 3-Year-Old

A male friend (19) said to a female friend (19) of mine… “You have the legs of an 18 year old, the chest of a 10 year old, and the face of a withered 40 year old” (Source)

If This Is a Vacation, I’m Staying at Work

“I feel like you’re on vacation while you’re at your mom’s.” This was said by my soon to be ex-wife when my mom was dying of cancer and my brother and sisters took turns caring for her. I was aghast, lost for words. After I composed myself and told her how horrible it was, she said I took it out of context. She later claimed her family and friends new what she meant. Huh? She said she meant that I was lazy. Never mind I was at the window watching death make a march towards my mom, or that I set my alarm every two hours in the middle of the night to literally keep the fire going, made sure she had her meds so her pain didn’t swallow her whole, wake up each time I heard her get up and ask if she needed help, a drink of water, anything! Then go to work the next day. This was my mom and I was supposedly on vacation? If she felt wronged, her retribution swelled and burst and spewed every hurt feeling on me more her miserableness. (Source)

How Big Are His Hands?

“I’m not saying your d_ck is small, just that I get more stimulation from a tampon” (Source)

Can We Be Happy This Guy Got Beat Up?

A guy 4 years older than me, talking to a pair of his friends while all three of them turn around in their chair/crane their necks to look at me and stare, smirk or snicker. Guy: “She’s just so selfish, though. I mean for f_ck’s sake – get out of the way, b_tch!” Friend 1: “Dude, she can’t help i-.” Friend 2: “Shut up, Jack. Don’t be such a p_ssy.” Guy: “Look, the c_nt can fuck off to some other school for retards or something. Regular students don’t need to put up with her sh_t.” Context I’m blind, and just when I started losing my vision, I used to have to pull my chair closer to the board in order to see what was written on it. I was always a very shy kid, and I felt guilty for having to move about so much when other pupils were trying to work. For the same reason, I did my best to ensure I wasn’t obscuring anyone’s view of the board, and whenever someone said “Coleen, move a little to the left, would you?” I was more than happy to do so. Instead of letting me know I was in his way, this guy thought he’d just spend his lunchtimes talking to his friends about me in this tone of voice that made it clear I was f_cking disgusting in his opinion – that I was worthless to him and that he hated my guts. The same guy would brush roughly past me if I was walking in front of him, bumping his shoulder up against mine in an attempt, I assume, to make me fall over. Then he’d turn around and spit, “Don’t dare touch me.” The worst bit is that I was 10 motherf_cking years old. I lost track of the amount of times I’d walk home from school with tears streaming down my face. The best bit is that the same guy is in hospital right now with a broken collarbone and multiple broken ribs after another local dude and his friends beat the sh_t out of him for pulling a knife on his (other local dude’s) sister. (Source)

Mourn the Way You Want to

“When you spoke at your dad’s funeral and didn’t cry, I felt like you only spoke for attention to yourself and didn’t care at all about your dad.” Sorry but not sorry that I’d rather celebrate his life than go into depression over his death. The girl who told me this is my ex-girlfriend. Fortunately for both of us she told me this over the phone while I was out of town. Had she said it to my face, I’m honestly not sure how I would have reacted. (Source)

I’m Rubber and You’re Glue

Why don’t you just go and kill yourself?” (Source)

This Is a Frightening Comment to Hear

“Wait…you’re a guy?” (Source)

So Why Won’t You Date Me?

“I won’t date you because you’re Asian.” – Caucasian Female “I won’t date you because you’re Asian.” – Asian female. Like whoa… that hurts… (Source)

Get Rid of This Guy, Fast

“It’s too bad you’re not rich, maybe if you had been I could have dealt with your mental illness” – An ex-something. “I don’t want to kiss you, I just want to cum on your face” – Same guy (Source)

A Little Late to Say This

“I only married you for the visa.” (Source)

These Guys Define Losers

“Awesome body, but who would want to date that face” I overheard this on the way to school one day. They went into an in depth discussion on how I didn’t wear makeup and never had nice hair… I wasn’t allowed to, my mum used to tease me about how awful I looked all the time, but she wouldn’t help me or let me try anything. I had the basics, shampoo, conditioner and some gel stuff to keep my hair down. She wouldn’t buy me anything else. (Source)

They Never Call When They Say They Will

Had a girl ask for my number; I was genuinely psyched as she was hot and this never happens to me. I found out later it was for a joke. Although a fairly common thing, this made me feel pretty crappy (Source)

Mother’s Day Is Not His Favorite Holiday

My Mother to me when i was 6th Grade: “If you were buried alive today, I could not care less about you then i do now” All because i got a C in my Report Card. Sixth Grade. 8 years more of comments like this really killed my relationship with her. (Source)

Being No. 2 Is a Great Motivator, It Turns Out

I’ve been cheated on, led on, used all that good shit. But hearing “you’d make an acceptable back up if a woman’s first choice fails” really rubbed me the wrong way and it’s what motivated me to hit the gym and take care of myself again. 30 pounds down and counting. (Source)

Most Likely to Be a Jerk

“You are a terrible person and I don’t like you” This was in a yearbook. (Source)

The Worst Thing a Mom Can Say

When my brother died, my mom took it as hard as you might expect. I looked like him, so she couldn’t look at me for a while… she slowly learned to just hate me because I reminded her of him. One day I was trying to help her fix her computer (something I took over doing since my brother used to do it) and she asked me a question I didn’t know the answer to, so I told her I’d find out. She sighed, said “You’ll never be him.” and walked away. (Source)