A mom decided to throw a birthday party for her three-year-old and invited 30 people to mark the occasion. However, she’s considering blocking many of her friends after most failed to attend.
The parent shared their story on Reddit, explaining that they have two children aged two and three. They claim they were in the hospital for their three-year-old’s previous birthdays, so this was the first time they would properly celebrate the event.
The poster explains they sent out invitations, noting they always show up to similar events, even if they are far away. Most people replied, saying they would attend. The parent claims three guests canceled on the morning of the party, citing various reasons. They explain that they were a little disappointed but appreciate that life happens. Unfortunately, that disappointment only grew throughout the day.
The mom explains the invite was for a 2 PM start, but they expected most would show up from 3 PM. The first guest showed up, but couldn’t stay long as they had work commitments. They explain they were grateful regardless. An aunt showed up, as did a best friend, but everyone else on the guest list failed to attend. The parent claims they called everyone who was supposed to be there, and nobody responded.
The Parent Cried After The Botched Birthday Party
Understandably, the poster explains that she was very upset with how the event turned out. They wrote, “I was in the bathroom crying towards the end as I’d put on a brave face for her, but I just couldn’t believe how everything panned out.” The daughter had a good time regardless, but the parent is now considering blocking everyone “who lied about coming, as the whole thing was disrespectful.”
The parents’ story has almost 300 comments, and while many users think they should block their friends, others suggest being more tactful. One comment, with over 2000 likes, reads, “I wouldn’t block them but, I wouldn’t go out of my way to be there or do anything for any of them in the future.”
Many others point out that not attending an event when you say you will is just disrespectful. Another upvoted reply reads, “You went out of your way to make this day special, and they disrespected you. It’s completely understandable that you’re hurt. You deserve better friends who respect your efforts.”
Others offer a more blunt approach, with one saying, “The fact they refused to answer ur calls meant they were avoiding you. They never planned to attend. I would block & delete all of them.”